My Parents Do NOT Support My Singing Career! What Do I Do?

My Parents Do Not Support My Singing Career! What Do I Do?

I received this note on line today. See if you can relate....

"Hi Wendy,  I'm a young singer and I was wondering if you can please do a video about parents not wanting there kids to be singers. Cause my mom today was like "I don't get it.  I never here you sing the songs your voice teacher teaches you, and now your singing random songs"

In my head I know I can sing whatever I want but my mom thinks I can't, she always doubts me. I know one day when I become a good singer that she will be like "I was proud to see her become a good singer and take around places to perform it was stressful but I knew she would do it one day." 

Like there is an Open Mic happening not far from where I live and I want to enter by my mom is doing nothing to help me. I'm a kid, I can't just walk up and register. But I know I might not win but I'm trying my best until I'm going to win! My parents just never in a million zillion life times would understand unless if I become someone like Taylor Swift or Jodie Foster."

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Wow. I DO get that. I understand exactly what this person is saying. And I have to tell you, your parents may NEVER support your singing career. Oh well. But you can STILL HAVE AN AMAZING CAREER! You have to follow your heart. It's YOUR life. Your Dream. Your skills, Your Talent, Your Goals, Your Time, Your Money. You can do whatever you want in life as long as you are not causing harm to others.

So how can you do it? In a smart way of course. I'll teach you. It's... a STRATEGY.

1. First thing. This is a must. Take care of all your responsibilities at home and at school. Do well in School. Get good grades, do your homework, be on time for school, keep your room clean, help out around the house. If this is done your parents will be happier. You will be demonstrating responsibility. They still might not support your singing career, but they would be wrong to complain about any of that. I mean if you are doing all that, you got EVER RIGHT to go sing. Okay?

Lesson 2. Get a job; babysitting, at McDonalds, dog walking, selling lemonade in the park...whatever you can do to make money, legally. Accumulate it, save it. Save up and use your OWN money to take private singing lessons. That way you are not putting ANY financial struggle on your parents for your singing career. They can't argue you with you about that. They can I suppose...but they have NO reason to. Stay calm and carry on. GET TRAINED. Training is SO critical. You must learn how to sing properly and control your voice. Take FREE lessons at your school, sing in the Choir, The Glee Club, Chorus, do Musical Theater. You can also look online and practice with all the signing training exercises every day.

Using this strategic approach, you will also be showing your well meaning, but oblivious or confused parents just how mature you are! And how hard you are willing to work for your goals. Most people tend to respect people like that, I know sure do. And if your parents are still complaining, well... they ain't got no reason to complain. They just are. So you just relax and carry on, knowing you ain't doing NOTHING wrong. Okay?

Listen, kids you can trust me. I have been a singer for 25+ years. Here is a funny story. When I was in school I sang every day in my house after Junior High and High School. I sang for  3 hours every day after I cam home from school and before I stated by homework, My dad didn't even notice.

I went to sing Kareoke in the mall after school. My dad didn't even know because he thought I was just shopping when he dropped me off:). I jot a job selling bonsai trees in the mall and on my break every day I went and sang in the Kareoke both. I entered a contest in my home town and my Daddy  came to see me sing. Afterward he was shocked. He said two things to me I''ll never forget. 1)"Wendy, when did you learn to do that?"

(okay...I smiled at my father but I said to to myself ... duh... every day, 2 hours a day practicing for 6 years right in front of you at home, plus 1 year of voice at college for  2 semesters... duh) But I kept smiling at my handsome daddy. I was amazed that he had no idea that I could sing living right under the same roof all my life. Geez. Okay...

Then he looked me right in they eye,smiled with pride and say mater of factly, "Wendy it looks like you belong up there." I was so happy to hear that, and of course...Yes I did belong up on stage signing. I always knew that.  I didn't wait for any parent of mine to support my singing career.

3. Get professional coaching from a working singer in your home town if you can find one.  I can also teach you singing classes on Skype: Wendyalane1

I work with kid's budgets and I am generous so I can do $25 for 1 hour of singing training on SKYPE or by Phone.  I like to help kids who have a dream so don't worry I can help you get great training at really affordable rates. (Your parents might even pay for it who knows) It will save them from having to drive you down to lesson or taking the bus.

4. NEXT and SO, SO, SO IMPORTANT. You must go Sing LIVE every chance and everywhere you can. To the girl who wrote me the letter up there. Why can't you walk right up to that Kareoke and ENTER? Sometimes Bowling Alleys have Karaoke, and restaurant and birthday parties. Do it. Kids can accomplish great things. You can to. Believe me. Your parents may, or may not support your singing career. But you know its what you want to do.... so do it.

5. GET MORE KNOWLEDGE OF HOW TO BUILD A SINGING CAREER. Read. Read articles month internet, read autobiographies of famous singers.If you like you can read my e-book "How To Be A Star Right Where You Are." You can get it online at Paypal HERE.

Or you can send away for it in the mail it's just $10. Save your allowance and build your singing career. With that book you will have me to guide you, to believe in you, to encourage you, to support you. And not just me, my office, my assistant, my intern and my friends who all support my efforts to help talented kids just like you. Parents don't always understand. And that's okay. They do they best they can with what they've got and how they were raised. But growing up means each of us finds our OWN way.

My e-book "How To Be A Star Right Where You Are" is something you can do all on your own. I teach singers how to become a singer writer where you are- It teaches you how to find the right songs to sing, how to meet other musicians, how to get your songs recorded professionally and for cheap, what songs should you sing live, how to sell your songs online, on ebay, cd baby, iTunes etc. You will learn how to get booked with other musicians, how to find venues you can play, how to join or start a band, how to write your own songs, shoot your own music videos, how to meet booking agents, get a music manager, get a record deal, get your songs in film and TV. This book offers other brilliant music biz resources you can read. You MUST have this e-book. I wish I had this book when I was starting out. I had to figure all of this out on my own, but since I have already done all that, you can learn from my experience.

HOW CAN I BUY YOUR BOOK AND SKYPE WITH YOU FOR A LOW COST - 2 HOUR VOICE LESSONS RIGHT FROM YOUR OWN HOME?

TO PAY:

Here's how: work and save $30. Then send your $30 in a check, cash or money order to me at

WAW Entertainment 6924 Shadygrove Street, Tujunga Ca 91042. 
Get a blank piece of paper. Put your check or cash inside the paper, Fold it and then put it in your envelope. That way no one can see through the envelope. You can also send it in any left over card, birthday card, eastercard, doesn't matter. You need only 1 postage stamp. Here is how you address an Envelope:

TO SCHEDULE YOUR VOICE LESSON
To schedule your 2-hour professional voice lesson just email me wawentertainment@yahoo.com or call me (818) 203-6080. We will pick a time that works best for both of us. I can do weekdays, weeknights and weekends.

Once I have received your payment I will email you a copy of my e-Book "How To Be A Singing Star Right Where You Are."

First you will sing for me, and I will listen to you current techniques and let you know what I love about our voice and what I think you could improve upon. During each session we will cover correct diaphragm breathing, correct tone, enunciation, vocal projection, warm up techniques to keep your voice safe, and picks songs you can sing at live events. Save $25 more and we will do another 2 hour session. Easy Peasy. Who says you can't affords professional training from a singer with 25 years of experience, 3 top 40 hits in Europe, songs on the radio, videos on MTV. VH1 and BET. Yep that 's me and yes you can learn from the best. When I was a kid I used to send away for stamps. I sill have those stamps in a box somewhere in my fathers basement and they didn't made me 1 single dollar or helped me achieve my dreams. Spend your money smarter.

Me recording my CD in the Studio

Okay...I will give you one SECRET from my book: Super Stars know this. You need to sing regularly in public everywhere you can. 

Here is a list of 65 things you can do to get your singing career started.

FOR THE NEXT 2-3 YEARS GO SING AT:

• Churches
• Schools
• Fairs
• Farmers Markets
• Nursing Homes,
• Kiwanis Clubs
• Lions Clubs
• Knights Of Columbus
• Elks Clubs
• Fundraisers
• Charity Events
• Family Events
• Have A Concert In Your Backyard And Sing For Your Neighbors, Family And Friends
• Enter Every Singing Contest, Competition And Talent Show Within At Least A 100-200 Mile Radius
• Colleges Or University Events. Call The Events Department
• At Colleges And See If There Is A Local Event You Can Sing At.
• Country Fairs
• Art Galleries
• People Homes At Private Parties
• Sing The National Anthem At Every Sporting Event In Your
• Community And Surrounding Communities, Towns And States
• Sing At Local Corporate Events
• Major Or Local Political Events
• Weddings
• Bar Mitzvahs, Bat Mitzvahs
• New Years Eve Parties
• Fashion Shows, Zoos, Etc.
• Sing On Local TV Show Or Radio Stations
• Open For Musicians Or Big Acts Visiting Your Local Town
• Sing At Local Music/Night Clubs
• Coffee Houses
• Hotel Bars
• Restaurants
• BBQ’s
• PTA Benefits
• Wedding Anniversary
• Funeral
• Picnics
• Halloween Parties
• Spring Or Fall Festivals
• Weiner And Marshmallow Roasts
• Christmas Revues
• Department Stores Events
• Children’s Hospital
• Veterans Clubs
• Annual Christmas Dinner Dances
• Local Circus
• Museum Fundraiser
• Find Out Where Your Local Open Mics Are And Go Sing At them!
• Local events in small towns sometimes sound like this… 
• The Annual Milk Fund Benefit
• Auxiliary American Legion Show,
• Rainbow Girl’s Valentine Day Dance
• Campfire Girl’s St.
• Patrick’s Day Lunch, 
• Safeway Employees Association Benefit, 
• Yacht Club, 
• Big Time Revue Vaudeville Night…Sing at those too!
• Put on a concert at your local church. Create flyers. Invite everyone you know. Friends, family, teachers, post them allout. Invite other people you know to sing with you, Take charge of your life.
• Sing On Local Jingles For Local Businesses.
• Audition for local musical theater groups and get experience
• On stage and working professionally. Later, you may be ready to move to New York to audition for Broadway if that is your dream!
• On You Tube
• Audition for every national singing contests you can including: American Idol, America’s Got Talent and The Voice. Go online to their websites and follow directions. You can audition in person or online by sending in a tape."Audition may times for the same contests. Some singers get on TV competition shows after their 4th or 5th audition. Don’t give up. Don't give up your dreams. If you are good, you are good, Keep putting yourself out there. Not everyone gets on but you never know. I’m just saying…don’t try once and give up. Be persistent.

It doesn't matter what state or country you are in...singing live will give you experience, confidence, help you develop a strong stage performance, better performance skills, an ability to handle and relate with audiences and an opportunity to grow your audience and collect their email so you can inform them of upcoming dates you sing.

So kids... you are welcome to share this BLOG with all of your parents or your music teachers. It's okay to let them know what you are up to, And you always want to go with a friend (or parent/sibling) when you are going to new places. You don't need to go alone. Let your parents know what you are doing. You can ask for help. Sometimes you will get it, sometimes you won't. When you don't, oh well... you just keep doing what you love to do. SING!!

You can't sit on your behind and quit or complain if no one in your family is helping you. My parents didn't help me become a singer and I have song on over 60 CD's a handful of commercials, my music has been in film, TV and on the radio. The fact is: often other musicians will help you more than your own family, or mentors and singing teachers like me. The other ...well they just don't understand.

Remember this...no one will ever believe in your dreams more than you do. That's why they are YOUR dreams.

I look forward to working with you and guiding you to the Red Carpet, Award Shows, Recording Studio, CD Sales, and reading newspaper and magazine articles about YOU!

Believe In Yourself. I believe in you:)

Here is a TREAT: I recorded this song just for you.  HEAR WENDY SING

Wendy Alane Wright'
The Hollywood Talent Manager
WAW Entertainment
(818) 203-6080